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The Wedding Dance
Dancing at your reception is a lovely way
to bring an air of elegance and family togetherness to a wonderfully
happy and joyous occasion.
Traditionally, the bride and groom will be the first
to dance as their special song is played softly. Lights dimmed low
create a romantic atmosphere.
As the music continues to play, the father of the
bride will cut in on the groom and dance with his daughter. The groom
asks the bride's mother to join him in a dance and together they grace
the dance floor.
The groom's father then cuts in on the bride's father
and dances with the bride himself. The bride's father will then cut in
on the groom and dance with his wife.
The groom will then ask his mother to dance. Following
this, the parents exchange dances with the other couple.
The best man then comes out to ask the bride to dance
and the groom will dance with the maid or matron of honor. Finally, the
entire wedding party, ushers and bridesmaids join in the festivities.
Once the entire bridal party and their parents are on the dance floor,
the other guests are invited to dance.
The "money dance" originated as a custom in Poland,
and is a popular tradition found celebrated in the weddings of today. It
takes place sometime after the first dance and is usually announced by
the DJ. It is customary for the best man to begin dancing with the
bride, pinning money onto her gown or putting it into a satin bag
carried by the bride, especially for the money dance. A newer rendition
of this money dance includes bridesmaids and other ladies dancing with
the groom, pinning money on his lapel.
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